What does it mean to be "happy"? Does having a good job and good friends and a good partner mean i should be happy?? I have all this but i still feel miserable and its starting to affect my job and my personal relationships. My partner is at a loss of what he can do to make me better and hes tried everything and i still feel this way. Am i missing something in life? is he not the one for me? I cry at the smallest things and i start fights with him on purpose because i want to hurt him. What kind of person does that?? i always feel so horrible after because i know he has my best intentions at heart and would never do anything to hurt me. Please help. I dont know what to do. Am i doomed to be miserable?