(sorry so long): So I am a high risk pregnancy person, I have had 6 pregnancies and only 2 live births. Strangely enough, the two live births(other than an ectopic) were my first children. The other two had anomolies, possibly from the fact I taught cosmetology school, there was a thought of some connection to the chemicals there. I am 13 weeks, and had some intermittant bleeding at 7 weeks. Insurance did not cover my usual doctor, so I went to a new one. She acted like she was not going to do anything until I was 12 weeks, she didn't think it was worth the trouble in case I miscarried. She told me to pretend I wasn't even pregnant, did not even give me a prescription to prenatals, just some samples(I bought my own at WalMart).So last Thursday,at 12 weeks, I had my usual checkup so I showered. Upon exiting, I had hemorraging, so much I lost 4lbs. They sent me to the emergency room, where I sat all day and never saw my doctor(no food or drink). The ultrasound showed a very healthy fetus, so they sent me home and said call new doc in a week. So Sunday it starts again, and I go to emergency. They have me there for 10 hours, no food or drink, and take blood and nothing else(consulting new doc the whole time) and tell me to call the office today and see her . So I do, and they tell me I can't see a doctor,only a midwife. So I wait another day to see the doctor. I got very upset, and my hubby did some searching and found out we could actually go to my old doctor, the one who actually gave me a living, breathing child. They squeeze me in asap, and are already ordering up all of the tests and reviewing things so they have a plan. I called the new doctor to cancel and left a message. They call me back just now to tell me the doctor can't see me tomorrow. I said, that's okay because I called and left a message to cancel because I got a new doctor! I understand I am high risk, but I have children who are alive!!! Why did they treat me like this? I am always polite and try not to pester, so it is not like I called the doctor at home ever,and only called the office a few times. I am so glad that I got my old doctor back, but geez!