i can not decide for the life of me as to which bag i should get. 1)the medium black sig ergo hobo- this bag is beautiful, practical, comfortable...BUT i already have a black bag that i love (non-Coach), so i am having a hard time justifying buying the ergo... 2)the signature stripe denim tote- again, this bag is so beautiful but because it is so wide open, i am worried about safety. But i am a sucker for that denim style and the legacy lining! I'm also worried about it falling off of my shoulder, which the bf says won't be a problem once i put my stuff in it. 3)the ergo black sig crossbody- this bag would be wonderful for trips. But i wouldn't use it as often as the other two. oooh woe is me What should i do? Also, how many times a week do you go to your local Coach store? I always feel like the SA's look at me like i'm in there every weekend (which i'm not. I really only go in like 1-2 a month).