I had a bag listed on eBay, and a girl gave me a best offer for it, which I accepted. I was waiting for payment and waiting for payment and finally emailed her and asked her when I could expect payment so I could ship the bag. She said her credit cards have all been declined, and she could not afford it! She offered me $35 as a "restocking" fee and asked that we withdraw feedback. I emailed her and told her that I would not accept the $35 and would be leaving negative feedback for her. I said that when you bid on something, it is like a contract to buy. Don't bid if you can't afford it! I'm sure she will likewise leave negative feedback for me. I am so mad that now i have to relist the bag. Did I do the right thing?! Please help me, dear PF'ers.