OMG! I am SOOO upset and have to let it out ! Please excuse me for a long story...I will try my best to make it short. When I started my H bags collection, my parents helped me alot to hunt down hard to find Birkins. My mom and I had some kind of aggrement(?) to share bags...which really had not happened that much so far until this thing happened. She used to use my bags when she visited me, and I borrowed hers that she took them with her to visit me. This time, we did something little different...I believed my mom was a careful H bag user after seeing how well she has been maintaining and taking care of her H croc collections! As my parents are in oversea, we decided to borrow each other's bag 2~3 bags at a time for a couple of months. So, I took her blue jean ostrich Birkin (she told me if I really liked it, I could keep it, but I decided to return it to her. Because I think handles turn darker much quicker in BJ ostrich than other colors in ostrich in my opinion... ), and I let her take potiron togo with PH and brown togo with GH Birkins to home a couple of months ago. Okay...she is back to visit me, and she didn't take extra Birkins with her this time knowing she has to take BJ ostrich Birkin back to home. She has been using potiron and brown Birkins while she has been here. Finally, it is the night before she is going back, she has returned my potiron and brown birkins and taken her BJ ostich Birkin since I don't want to keep it. OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! I am EXTREMLY UPSET! I do NOT have OCD or I am NOT anal on things, but I am careful enough to keep my bags clean! With my standard, she DESTROYED those two Birkins!!!!!!!!!!!! They have deep scratches all over, forget about HW (I don't even want to describe them), and there are some kind of white spots (I have no idea what they are...white out...paint..???) . I have NO idea what she did and where she took them! I mean I am really into croc. Birkins and try to keep numbers down for non-exotic Birkins, but I want to keep some of non-exotic Birkins for when I can't be really extra extra careful with exotic Birkins. She keeps all her croc. Birkins and Kellys really well! Some of her croc Birkins and Kellys are over 10 years old, and still look BRAND NEW!!!!!!! That's why I trusted her with my bags! Yes, regular leather Birkins are cheaper than croc.s but still expensive and I treasure every single bag! I do NOT trash bags because some of them are cheaper than others! I am NOT taking those bags back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND NO MORE sharing or borrowing whatsoever!!!!!!!!!!! She has to do something about those two bags! I am really upset, & can't sleep! They were brand new and brand new like when she took them. And they came back like 20 years old Birkins that had been used for every single day!!!! I gave her those Birkins to take with her(of course, I let her know how upset I am), and leave it up to her what she wants to do about this. I am sorry if I sound too crazy...but man! I am angry!