Hi ladies, I have fairly positive problem here. My husband had decided to give me a bag I would never buy myself as a bonus from all the hard work I have done for the family, to support him and for my business. It is a part of his bonus, and as usual he is not big on spending on himself. He asked whether I had an UHG in my mind, but for the moment I do not have anything on my mind. Only bag I have been seriously wanting for long time is Etoupe Togo with GHW, but paying more than retail for it (I have seen some for about 15K), it feels absolutely stupid, and I am not one of those gals going to Hermes store to buy a new one. The budget limit is 20k USD. The ones I had in my mind is a vintage Sellier Kelly croc, 32cm (hard to find) and definitely not black. Grey ostrich kelly, the same size and style, or something else. Kelly long wallet in croc to use it a clutch? But, I am not in a mood for bag shopping at the moment. I am actually longing for one vintage diamond ring, and knowing myself, the bags get always traded into something else in the long run. Should I try to convince him into that ring instead of a bag or try look for some bag to invest in? I am so torn. Is there any logic going for that Etoupe, or should I start hunting for the small vintage croc, or go for birdie? I just cannot think of any of this, neither lose this opportunity to get something special for myself. Argh.... I had just decided not to buy any bags, as I have sold three Birkins away, and I have been very content with my two birkins and a tricolour Kelly Sellier I have. I am into vintage bags, and always pre-owned and I am not really into spending more than 10k on a bag. My husband wants something I would treasure for life. Wow, with my personality that feels quite a pressure. What to do?