I work with this guy who is unlike anyone I have ever met. He is so egotistical, can talk about himself on and on for hours, and openly (although doesn't outright say it) thinks he's better than everyone else.
Every time I open my mouth he shoots me down and basically tells me I'm stupid. Like I explain something perfectly clearly and he'll be like "I'm sorry, what? I've never heard of that before," and it's something ridiculously simple, and tell me it's stupid or make this grunt that means I'm an idiot, or he'll -pretend- to not hear me so I have to REPEAT myself, and then he will pretend it doesn't make sense. It's all an act.
I love my new job and I have no issues with my other coworkers. They are like a family and have known eachother for like 10 years. It's not like a regular workplace where I can pull my boss aside or anything... it's totally different.
I have even told him he is the ONLY person who talks to me like that and so it's obviously HIM and not me. We aren't bitter to eachother non stop, he's just a complete weirdo, I don't even know what his problem is.
But I really can't stand it. It's like I have a knot in my stomach all day long every day, I can't stand it. I don't want to leave my job but I don't know what to do to avoid his ridiculous VICIOUS attitude. If I even come back at him he is VICIOUS, he can't take it. He'll say any stupid thing to shoot the negative attention back at me.
I ignore him and this does nothing. I don't know WHAT in the world I should do. There's more details but I am afraid of this getting too lengthy if they are not necessary.
Anyway, I don't know WHO to ask this to... I'm hoping someone here knows a thing or two about human behavior or SOMETHING, anything I can do to avoid him treating me this way. I'm so afraid there's nothing I can really do, uuugghhhhhh I can't take it.
He thinks he is God, I'm so serious here.
Every time I open my mouth he shoots me down and basically tells me I'm stupid. Like I explain something perfectly clearly and he'll be like "I'm sorry, what? I've never heard of that before," and it's something ridiculously simple, and tell me it's stupid or make this grunt that means I'm an idiot, or he'll -pretend- to not hear me so I have to REPEAT myself, and then he will pretend it doesn't make sense. It's all an act.
I love my new job and I have no issues with my other coworkers. They are like a family and have known eachother for like 10 years. It's not like a regular workplace where I can pull my boss aside or anything... it's totally different.
I have even told him he is the ONLY person who talks to me like that and so it's obviously HIM and not me. We aren't bitter to eachother non stop, he's just a complete weirdo, I don't even know what his problem is.
But I really can't stand it. It's like I have a knot in my stomach all day long every day, I can't stand it. I don't want to leave my job but I don't know what to do to avoid his ridiculous VICIOUS attitude. If I even come back at him he is VICIOUS, he can't take it. He'll say any stupid thing to shoot the negative attention back at me.
I ignore him and this does nothing. I don't know WHAT in the world I should do. There's more details but I am afraid of this getting too lengthy if they are not necessary.
Anyway, I don't know WHO to ask this to... I'm hoping someone here knows a thing or two about human behavior or SOMETHING, anything I can do to avoid him treating me this way. I'm so afraid there's nothing I can really do, uuugghhhhhh I can't take it.
He thinks he is God, I'm so serious here.