I yelled right back at his a$$.
What I don't do is tolerate workplace disrespect. I don't give a darn about your temper, personality, the whole playing "the game" in corporate america, etc. Been there, done that. And no, I'm not the loudmouth chick, with her hand on her hip, neck rolling, finger in the air type of chick either. I just demand the same respect I give you.
We were in a meeting discussing the details of my separation from the company. It's a small agency owned by him, so there's really no real HR to back the employees.
He was REALLY upset at my leaving and he HATED that I yelled at him and told me to leave. I asked him "For what?" He said "You're being disrespectful!" I asked him had he been smoking crack before he came in the meeting because he had to have been yelling at me like I was his child. (By the way, he IS a former crackhead turned social worker so I know that struck a nerve) I didn't care at that point, becauase I knew I wasn't going to be back working there NOR using them as a future reference.
At any rate, I told him to "make me leave" and he didn't do a darn thing but sit there and do nothing. There was another person in the room to witness the meeting, so he both suggested we calm down and reconvene. After we regrouped, I told him what I wanted, why I was leaving, what my issues were that contricuted to my leaving, the details of my severance, etc.
He apologized and said he had NEVER had anyone yell back at him. I told him you treat your employees the way you want to be treated. They are not your children to yell at. I told him that was part of the problem at the company.
He wanted to make itmore family oriented, even though he doesn't have family who works for him. I told him "If you want your agency to be a respected agency, you HAVE to keep things professional at all times. Stop treating these people like your family. This is a business you are running, treat it as such."
I walked out of there with my severance check in hand, went STRAIGHT to the bank to cash it and haven't looked back.
What I don't do is tolerate workplace disrespect. I don't give a darn about your temper, personality, the whole playing "the game" in corporate america, etc. Been there, done that. And no, I'm not the loudmouth chick, with her hand on her hip, neck rolling, finger in the air type of chick either. I just demand the same respect I give you.
We were in a meeting discussing the details of my separation from the company. It's a small agency owned by him, so there's really no real HR to back the employees.
He was REALLY upset at my leaving and he HATED that I yelled at him and told me to leave. I asked him "For what?" He said "You're being disrespectful!" I asked him had he been smoking crack before he came in the meeting because he had to have been yelling at me like I was his child. (By the way, he IS a former crackhead turned social worker so I know that struck a nerve) I didn't care at that point, becauase I knew I wasn't going to be back working there NOR using them as a future reference.
At any rate, I told him to "make me leave" and he didn't do a darn thing but sit there and do nothing. There was another person in the room to witness the meeting, so he both suggested we calm down and reconvene. After we regrouped, I told him what I wanted, why I was leaving, what my issues were that contricuted to my leaving, the details of my severance, etc.
He apologized and said he had NEVER had anyone yell back at him. I told him you treat your employees the way you want to be treated. They are not your children to yell at. I told him that was part of the problem at the company.
He wanted to make itmore family oriented, even though he doesn't have family who works for him. I told him "If you want your agency to be a respected agency, you HAVE to keep things professional at all times. Stop treating these people like your family. This is a business you are running, treat it as such."
I walked out of there with my severance check in hand, went STRAIGHT to the bank to cash it and haven't looked back.