DH really doesn't understand, however he wouldn't think twice as spending £££s on football trips, so my bags are mine to do as a I please with.
Many wont agree, but that's how it is, he is useless with money and wasted his on far worse things than bags, so its none of his business
I know!! So many ephemeral things like nights out etc I don't like spending money on as there's nothing to show for it. He runs a motorbike as well as his car so there's money on brakes,tyres, kit almost something each month but all our household income goes into the 1 account; I can't really use the 'my money' argument since I went part time I'm not the chief earner I'm thinking if I can sell enough shoes/clothes etc to make up the same value.... ? Or start some kind of running 'savings' total everytime I don't buy something but make do with what I have?? Aargh this is horrible he makes me feel so shallow and consumerist but I love my bags
I know!! So many ephemeral things like nights out etc I don't like spending money on as there's nothing to show for it. He runs a motorbike as well as his car so there's money on brakes,tyres, kit almost something each month but all our household income goes into the 1 account; I can't really use the 'my money' argument since I went part time I'm not the chief earner I'm thinking if I can sell enough shoes/clothes etc to make up the same value.... ? Or start some kind of running 'savings' total everytime I don't buy something but make do with what I have?? Aargh this is horrible he makes me feel so shallow and consumerist but I love my bags
As an example, it is our 3rd wedding anniversary today which is "Leather" which for me is almost as exciting as if it were diamonds or something!