Love the pic with you in Jeans. IMO the dress with crossbody strap always looks better with a shorter strap or hand carry. I think bc the bottom of the 32K is so close to the hem, that it visually weighs one down. i usually strap up the s angels under the flap. When I raise the lid, I can still get my hand in without straining the straps. But, aesthetically, I prefer to hand carry the K of any size. I don’t think the K is mature Per se, it’s simply more structured. But, my style leans towards vintage and the kelly can enhance that. IMO the sellier B25 is a nice compromise.