i'm trying to convince my friend that she needs to get a mirror and get to looking, but i swear this woman is afraid of her own cooch! she thinks it's scary looking! i even directed her to the sex in the city episode where charlotte first learns to do it. but i digress...no such luck in helping her think it's okay to know what your "grace" looks like...she calls her grace. it's important to know what's going on down there and quite frankly know what it looks like for peaks sake! how often should you check out the vay jay jay? a) during your monthly breast exams b)more c)less d)never e)what is a va jay jay?