I am not a mother myself, but from observing how my mother is and other mothers, I can say that I know how they feel. First : We all love our bags, but we love them DIFFERENTLY. I can say my mother loves my sister and I equally, but it is two different kinds of love. You might love your magenta because its so wild, but you might love your black too because it is more versatile. Second : They each have their own pros and cons. We always have the "smarter" child or the "more athletic" in the family, as do bags. Some are more "veiny" or some are more "thick" and some more "smooshy". Third : When they are new, we take care of them like nothing else in the world matters. Babies need love and tender care, so does a brand new bag. As they age, we don't tend to them as much as we first got them, and make way for new bags to receive that sort of love. We still love the babies and the bags, but they just don't require THAT much attention. Fourth : They make us the happiest people in the world! If anyone can find other points fill us in please! And if anyone can figure out to impregnate these bags thru science please PM me A.S.A.P.