I'm so nosy!
I guess I just find it helpful to compare the way I do things with the way other people do things in their relationships... I think there's always something to learn or something I haven't thought of.
I'm curious for the unmarried ladies the difference in income between you and your significant other. Is it a lot? A little? No numbers necessary if you don't feel comfortable. How does that affect the things you do together (dates, vacations, gift-giving)? Does he end up shouldering a majority of the cost (and is this a function of a bigger paycheck or of traditional values or both)?
Sorry, I hope you guys don't think this is a stupid question. It's a little tacky which is why it's probably better I ask it here than to anyone in person. :shame:
I guess I just find it helpful to compare the way I do things with the way other people do things in their relationships... I think there's always something to learn or something I haven't thought of.
I'm curious for the unmarried ladies the difference in income between you and your significant other. Is it a lot? A little? No numbers necessary if you don't feel comfortable. How does that affect the things you do together (dates, vacations, gift-giving)? Does he end up shouldering a majority of the cost (and is this a function of a bigger paycheck or of traditional values or both)?
Sorry, I hope you guys don't think this is a stupid question. It's a little tacky which is why it's probably better I ask it here than to anyone in person. :shame: