My DH and I are going to the opera in Feb. I am probably going to wear this really cute cocktail-length dress made of a sort of light taupe satiny fabric covered with black lace, with a black satin cumberbund-type sash thingy under the bosom, sort of empire-style. It is sleeveless but not spaghetti straps or anything. I am thinking of buying either Stuart Weitzman or (!!!) Christian Louboutin pumps to wear with it. I am hoping to get a Chanel flap for Xmas. If I do, and if it's black (DH insists on picking out the color), do you think it would be OK to carry with this ensemble? Or should I stick with a small evening bag? TIA!!