I just bought a large soho wristlet. Now I feel silly since I can't figure out how I would use it, or what I would put in it. How do you carry it? Just dangling from the wrist? Like a clutch? How is this secure? Does this require constant maintanance of keeping it around your wrist? Doesn't it get in the way of, say, the grocery cart, or won't it get lost at the threatre/restaurant/wherever? Why wouldn't I just bring a regular size bag? What do you put in it? I also got a small (I think a typical size) wristlet. How would this be used differently from a large one? I have a skinny mini that carries my license and credit card and keys, so why do I need the other items??? (besides the obvious fact that the more the merrier?!?!?) How silly am I??? Need help!!!