How do you tell a friend..

You really don't know she will look bad with super blond hair. I have a friend who has a beautiful short cut--I mean a perfect cut..... She dyes her own hair and it ranges from ashy blond to that white blond. The only words I can say is that she is stunning, the color is perfect for her cut and style. I think if one has short hair that super blond color is easier to do and does not damage the hair because of keeping it short. But with long hair, it can look damaged but I have seen people who do got to a colorist and take care of their hair. I just had my hair cut super short pixie style due to a bad previous cut and now want to dye it blond again after having it light brown/ash blond.....everyone like me better as a blond and I have had it blond for so many years but wanted to try brown for a few months.