I am so mad. Dumb non-paying bidder did not pay after I accepted a best offer on eBay. I waited over 2 weeks and still no payment. Then she wanted to know why I was charging $XX for shipping and handling. I clearly wrote on my terms and conditions of my sale that international shipping and handling is a flat $XX amount (because I use global express insured shipping). I got my eBay fees back and gave her a negative feedback. Sure enough, she gave me a retaliation negative feedback saying that I did not wait for payment. IT HAS BEEN OVER 2 WEEKS AND I did not wait for payment???? Makes me so mad!!! Especially since my terms and conditions were that winner must notify me within 72 hours. ARRGGGHHH!!!! She did this before too to a couple other sellers. I wished I payed more attention to her feedback comments (she had one negative and one mutally withdrawn for the same exact thing!). So annoying. Now only thing I can do is request a mutual feedback withdraw, but I think she has to agree. ARRRGGGHHHH!!! Why are people so damn lame and retarded???? Anyways, just had to vent. Wanted to know how you ladies would have handled things.