The question is...When it comes to handbags...how big is too big? I am returning a Kooba Paige Large Shoulder Bag to Saks as it is huge, at least for me. It measures close to 17" across and 14" tall. I was so in hopes that it would work for me but I'm a slightly built gal and it is overpowering. Not to mention heavy. Today I was lucky enough to grab a Kooba Lena on sale at Saks.com for a great price so I'm hoping this will be alittle bit better of a fit. I'm not as fond of the Lena but maybe I will like it IRL and it is alittle smaller. Do you gals usually carry bags this big or are these large bags more of a "fad"? How big is too big?