Im just wondering... some couples i talk to still have the butterflies, some dont. I know with me, we just seem to fight more and he annoys me more and vise versa Its only been a year!! We are talking about settling down but sometimes i think, is this it? can i be happier? I know grass is not always greener but still. We have a relationship that never really started with the sparks and excitement - it was more as friends and a mutual respect for eachother - is that wrong? I dont know what being head over heels in love feels like, well actually i do but many years ago and this feels nothing like it so does that make this relationship wrong??? He is an amazing man and we both care for eachother but is it meant to be exciting? am i meant to get those butterflies? I know i shouldnt compare relationships but i have a friend who is getting engaged after 4 months and she just knows he is it - they look into eachothers eyes and all that and cant keep there hands off eachother and i feel a bit envious, i shouldnt though considering i have someone who also loves me.