Well, I'm not married, but I've been in a long-term relationship for three years and am madly in love with my BF. You're supposed to marry someone because you love them. Marriage is about finding someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. A partner in all the ups, downs and times in between.Has any of the TTCer think about divorcing her DH since maybe she won't be able to give him a family?
So true!Marriage is about finding someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. A partner in all the ups, downs and times in between.
My DH never makes me feel inadequated. He is very attentive and he told me I'm thinking too much ush:I think you need to re-examine why you feel like your marriage is worthless because you're having trouble conceiving. Has your husband made you feel like an inadequate wife because you can't conceive? Has he made snide or mean comments? That is a form of emotional abuse. If so, you should not internalize those feelings and seek marriage counseling.
I'm so sorry to hear that!I was diagnosed with PCOS so it's likely I won't be able to conceive either.
You've a big heart Chicbabacool! We've not given up hope yet, but also have talked about adopting. I hope things work out for you and you will be a mother and grandmother w/ lots of kids/grandkids.But if I can't conceive we've already decided we'll adopt. With so many parentless children out there it almost seems cruel NOT to adopt.