Beaumonde, you bring up an excellent topic for discussion. Having seen all the reveals, I must admit that there was a time or two that I wondered to myself if oniomania was involved. Not that I don't love seeing all the reveals, I DO! But there have been a couple that made me go "hmmm."
Anyhow - it's a hard call. I can totally sympathize with those who don't live in the same city as an H boutique as I don't either. But I am probably a little less sympathetic because I am not a returner by nature. I hate returning things even when I really should. With H prices, though, it makes it a little difficult not to exchange something that just really doesn't work/fit. That said, though, I would make absolutely certain that it did fit/work/look pristine before walking out of the boutique with it because I DO live in another city.
In a perfect world, there wouldn't be stupid people who have no respect or common sense and it wouldn't be a problem, but (not to be a Negative Nancy, just a realist) people ARE stupid. I see them everyday in every socio-economic level. They are everywhere - including in H shopping.
I guess what I am doing is talking myself into agreeing with Beaumonde. I wasn't sure I did agree when I started typing. I mean, everyone had excellent points to the contrary.
I think you establish a relationship of sorts with an SA and once they get to know you, they know if you have a "problem" or not. I think they could have a very strict return policy like "returns not permitted except at the sole discretion of the SA." They give them all sorts of power as it is, just give them one more. If the item is defective, they take it back - for instance, my carmen. I didn't bother returning it or exchanging it (got it through H.com and again it proves I HATE returning stuff) when the stitching came out after a few days, but common sense would dictate to the SA that they should exchange it for a good one because of a defect in the stitching which wasn't apparent at the point of sale. Or if it's a gift - get a gift receipt and without a gift receipt, it's not returnable...and only then if it passes SA inspection.
And on a purchase of that size, I would think those who do not live in a city with an H store would find a way to visit one before purchasing a bag sight unseen - just like I did. I know it's hard, but where there's a will, there's a way, right?
If anyone could pull off this no return policy, I would think Hermes could.
It makes more sense to me that instead of expecting common sense be used by ALL H customers, it would be more reasonable to expect common sense be used by all SAs instead. Less margin for error. (Not that there won't be error, because not all SAs are created equally.)
So that's my 14 cents. I agree with beaumonde.