I know you mean well but you cannot bribe the SAs. Just keep trying and they'll help you find your bag. For whatever reason, husbands/boyfriends who shop alone get better service than us female folk - especially if they're first time buyers, usually in the hunt of a pretty accessory for their other half. And unfortunately not all boutiques ship. It really just depends on the store. If all else fails, then try a reseller. Good luck!