So, after a LOT of browsing and going back and forth, here is my new love! This isn't even one of the bags I had in mind, but after browsing around the store, this bag was definitely "the one". DH actually helped pick her out (he has great taste lol), so... I am now part of the Carly club! The medium is so classy looking in the black, I think, and with her pretty brass hardware I think she will be really versatile for me - dressed up or down, I think she will look great.