I checked paypal and there was no payment so I called them and they had no record of a payment or a return. I then emailed ebay and they got back to me but they blamed paypal so I had to email them back and tell them that it was coming up on ebay's site not paypal (I really wish you could talk to a person instead of this email crap) and it was on the ebay discussion board, they got back and said they are aware of the problem and are working on it. I also emailed the person who bought my item and explained what was going on and wanted to make sure if she had or hadn't paid yet, she also got the refunded message but she hadn't paid yet. So we decided to wait and see what happens and then she will pay. I think she's afraid her payment won't show up. I have to say though that I bought several items this weekend with no problem.
Thanks for letting me know. I'm having more of a problem than just this because I can't even get a hold of the buyer. I've contacted her through eBay twice and have sent her 2 invoices, but no reply. I've even explained the situation, but no word from her. I know that the messages go to her eBay account and to her email, so I don't know what to do.
She has a phone # up with her address, though -- do you think it would be okay for me to call her?