For Christmas I just got two Botkier Biancas from my boyfriend; one is a medium in concord with gold hardware; the other one is large in the dark brown/silver hardware. He left it up to me to choose, because he wasn't sure which one I'd like. But I am a bit disapointed in how light they both are, the large seems too big and the medium too small. They are similar in color, so I really don't know. I was thinking of returning both of them, and getting another bag, but that would really hurt his feelings! Please help!