I'm going to a big wedding in February. I honestly have never been to a big wedding at least not in my twenties only when I was little. I have no idea on what to wear or even what color especially since it's winter. But I def don't want to wear black. Can you guys give me some suggestions? My budget is around 400 dollars for dress and shoes. Any advice would be very much appreciated!!!! Let me know if seeing a picture of me would help with advice. Oh I live in NY btw. Thanks in advance for your help.