I'm so sorry to hear what has happened to you, these people are really dishonest! I'd report her to ebay or paypal, for what it's worth, and hope that some kind soul in ebay and paypal will do something about it (once in a very very long while, you do come across such nice ebay/paypal employees, but unfortunately most of the time...), but if nothing comes out of it, I'd try to let it go. It's easier said than done, I know, but I wouldn't try to take it further from there or lower myself to her level. Take a deep breathe, relax, make a conscious effort to forget about the whole matter, then do it! Pls don't let this consume you, it's not worthed it
HELP! So angry! Should I confront this person?
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This happened so long ago that I don't think they will do anything.
But I will give it ago, there's isn't much else I can do.
You should definitely do that! Nobody needs this kind of headache! How can someone do this to another person, when they themselves sell on ebay!
BagAngel, LVGodiva, Eunika - I can't tell you how tempted I am! I've been watching her auctions for so long... I wish I was brave enough.
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I think that's the only one way to do to cheat her back~I mean, she scam you, why you not cheat her, too? Don't confront her via eBay ask seller question. You know, my best friend ever did it, asked via eBay to woman stole her LV ( similiar thing happened to her ). That nasty woman reported my friend to eBay as harrass her and tried to cheat her
( what??? ). eBay suspended my friend!
OMG!
Ebay horror stories just keeps getting worse! 
What did you ask her? Another pfer, who shall remain nameless
, got me her email address and it's the same address she used to scam me! I don't know what to do yet, but let's just say she's going to be getting lots of spam for a while!
I have yet to come across anyone at paypal who gives a damn! I think I am too polite on the phone so they keep telling me they can't do anything. This isn't the first time I've been scammed by paypal. The last time, there was another chargeback and again they did absolutely nothing! Lucky for me the buyer was in the same state so I threatened to call the police...I got my money back that time.
Thanks for your advice peppy. I will try. I have been trying, but I keep seeing her auctions, and it annoyed me so. And seeing my jeans today was the last straw.
She made $41 on something she got for nothing.... It cost me $300!<breathe>
This is what I'd be tempted to do with a second account...
Or report the auction and try to get it taken down.
Have you "reported" this thru Ebay, but clicking on and going to "report stolen property"
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EBAY sucks, end of story!
There is no protection through paypal for the sellers, they always favour the buyers.
If you send stuff standard post the buyer can say not received and theres nothing you can do, I have lost count of the times paypal refunded buyers from my account so you lose the money and the goods! grrrrrrrrrrrrr
There is no protection through paypal for the sellers, they always favour the buyers.
If you send stuff standard post the buyer can say not received and theres nothing you can do, I have lost count of the times paypal refunded buyers from my account so you lose the money and the goods! grrrrrrrrrrrrr
well i was having a problem with paypal and i spoke to a manager and he told me delivery confirmation is not good enough proof that the buyer actually got the item. all it shows is that it got delivered. what he told me was to send everything with signature confirmation. That was they can't say they have not gotten it. What i personally do with high priced items is send it with signature confirmation with RESTRICTED DELIVERY! which means ONLY that person(buyer) can sign for it. They also ask for I.D. since paypal sides with buyers and doesn't really protect sellers i think thats the best way a buyer can always say...i didn't sign for it ...yet it was signed for at their home so with signature confirmation w/ resticted delivery they just can't lie!!!
as for your jeans call paypal and ask for a manager ...tell the customer service agent you want the call escalated to a manager and tell them everything!!! please keep us updated
as for your jeans call paypal and ask for a manager ...tell the customer service agent you want the call escalated to a manager and tell them everything!!! please keep us updated
This makes me so angry. I urge you to BUY the Jeans and do a charge back...even if the jeans have holes in them...do it. Ebay never do anything usually about something like this so I would take matters into your own hands. This seller needs teaching a lesson...even if it means you getting a second account. Im sure lots of PFr's including me will help you if you need it. 
