I just sold a $400 bag on eBay and in my auction stated payments accepted via Paypal to confirmed addresses ONLY. The buyer already sent payment but not only is the address listed not confirmed, she is requesting that I send the bag to a different address from the one Paypal has listed (same apartment complex, but different apartment #) and she supplied me with her phone number. It does say that the buyer is "Verified" with Paypal. I'm trying to get her to update her address info and confirm it by adding a CC # but she hasn't done that yet but she is getting anxious about when she can expect to receive the bag. Should I stand firm and wait for her to do her part with Paypal, or should I go ahead and send it to the new address with insurance/tracking/delivery confirmation (which I was going to do anyway)? I'm scared of a chargeback...or her possibly claiming she never got the bag or that someone else used her Paypal account. What should I do?