Hi guys, as some of you probably know that i have a 11 months old son. Well, this little fella is having feeding troubles right now. First of all, he hates sitting in his high chair, he cries for a little while every time i put him in that chair. I guess it's because I used spoil him and let him eat in his walker where he would eat his food. Secondly, he hates spoons. He likes me hand-feed him if it's the food he likes. Sometimes he cries as soon as he sees me trying to feed him with a spoon, without knowing what food it is. Anyways, here's my major concern, he only likes cheese, oats, yoghurt and custard. It seems like he wouldn't eat anything else. I don't cook much but I have tried my best to cook him meat, vegetables and so on. He just hates them. I'm really worried about his nutritional intakes if all he eats is dairy food. I have seeked professional help and all they told me was as long as he doesn't lose weight it's fine. (my son's still gaining weight) and another lady told me that "you rather have a baby that doesnt eat for a few days than having a fuzzy eater for few years." Her theory was take the food off my son and not to offer him the food he likes, so he doesnt get the message of it's ok to be fuzzy with food. She thinks that if he is hungry enough, he would eat whatever. and yes i have tried it out, and my son's ok with not eating! He was ok with eating solid when he was younger, and he's gone worse and worse now. Could you guys please share you experience with me? Sorry this was a bit long and I probably didnt make much sense, I'm just so upset, worried and stressed out. My son actually pushes/slaps my hand away when I feed him and there's food everywhere on the floor all the time. He also cries EVERY TIME he eats. It's so much of a mess for me right now and I dont know what to do! So, please help!