This would be my second bbag and I haven't technically seen or touched the first which is a 04 maroon twiggy (on it's way and can't wait to receive it), but I've been hearing all about this smooshy and buttery leather, but when I received my 06 fall black city the leather seems kind of stiff and nothing like I thought it would be. I've seen pictures of other's bbags and I love that it looks slouchy and soft. Is there anything I can do to make this bag more "to my liking?" I'm thinking of returning it...or maybe it'll get getting better with use. Since I'm a newbie I'd love your insight and advice.