HELP LADIES...I'm searching for the next b-bag for me...I just dunno which one! I looked on ebay and I keep changing my mind because I don't have enough b-bag experience. I need one that has a handle big enough to carry over the arm and roomy enough to put all my work files in. At the same time I want it as small as possible so I don't look too baggy...am i making sense (I'm petite). I need a color that looks good with everything (I work in a suit), but not black. I'm so inexperienced with balenciaga, hellllpppp!!! Will I be over bagged with the weekender? Is the work going to fit over my shoulder with a wool jacket and suit? Thanks ahead of time for b-bag wisdom!