Hi gals I have searched high and low and finally found a luxury black bowler, but alas in the metallic which was my 2nd option (the deerskin was my first, as I prefer softer leather). However after seeing so many wonderful pictures of the luxury flap, I am undecided!!! I'm more of a shoulder bag person but I so adore the shape of the bowler. Plus is the metallic is stiffer so harder to carry on the shoulder? Advice please!! Thanks!!