I am new to LV, and am planning on buying my first bag this weekend! I used to be into Coach, but have grown tired of the brand and am looking for a change. I have decided to get either the Neverfull MM or the totally PM. For those of you that have/had both, which one do you prefer? This would be my everyday bag and I have two small children. I am torn about which one to get because I like the look of the Neverfull, especially when the sides are cinched, but don't necessarily like the open top and have heard that the sides don't stay cinched all the time. I'm worried about the totally though because it has more vachetta, and I'm afraid that it will get dirtier faster. Also, I have already decided for sure that I'm getting the map bandeau scarf in prune. Which bag do you think the scarf would look better on? Any help would be greatly appreciated .