Hi all, I'm in need of a new tote ASAP. I have tired of lv and my Goyard St. Louis has cracked handles after three months of light use (love the bag, hate the quality). I need a new tote that I don't have to baby and will last. I am pondering between the garden party 36 and bv initials tote. I am a small person so I could carry the garden party over my shoulder. Which would you choose and why and do you have any other suggestions and I would love to see your garden party in gold or black in the 36 carried over the shoulder! I have also thought about mansur Gavriel but have had two of their bags and thought the quality of their bags was also not very good. Other than than the Gucci marmont I am not a fan of Gucci and I don't like anything flashy like Valentino with studs. Looking for something understated and pebbled and no chain straps. Thanks so much!