Hi Jen, I have a large daria hobo and it really is a BIG bag. I find it really light though and very comfortable to wear. I also have a medium mitzy in black (I am a hobo bag kind of girl!) which feels quite small in comparision. The mitzy is heavier as the pebbled leather is thicker. They have lots of daria's in the outlets at the mo, are you near one to check them out? You can pop a long strap onto the mitzy too and make it into a messenger, makes it feel as if you have two bags for the price of one! Do love the blingy coaster on the daria and am secretly lusting after a medium oak........ I say daria if you want a really big bag. Have fun finding one.