HELP LADIES AND GENTS... I need help with a decision...What fits my life better. 1. I am a mom first off, a 9 year old, also 28 year old living away with small child..we visit often...very busy all together...child and grandchild are close like sisters..this means...BIG BAG for me...Lots of gadgets to carry at all times.!! I must be ready for anything!! 2. Working full time in an office setting. 4 days a week. 3. Live in cold weather climate...LOTS of rain, snow in winter. 4. I am 5 foot 5 in...weight is 165...(I've tried the A Wellbutrin diet...doesn't work...just kidding...really) currently planningon losing at least 10 in a month... 5. My Fave...FAVE bag is my Damier ALMA... LOVE IT< LOVE IT>> it's my true love...I LOVE DAMIER. 6. Second love is my 30 Mono Speedy...LOVE it, however can't bear to have it rained or snowed on..so I baby it!! I will haul out the dooneys to protect it!LOL 7. My going out bag is Bronze verise thomspon or Damier make up bag that doubles as all time excellent bag!! that rare occurence is covered!!! 8. Birthday, Christmas gift (oct bd) needs to be decided...ASAP...DH loves both...I need to decide now...need your help! 9. What fits my life??? I Love the speedy style...it is me...love the Saleya look, however, my SA is so far away and all she ever advises is buy...LOL, I need help...be neutral... Looking at the azur speedy or saleya pm or mm??? What are the benefits..? Thanks for all input..