If it's your first LV and you're afraid of color transfer on the DA print on the Delightful, why don't you look at the monogram print? I'm not a big fan of the DA print myself due to fear of color transfer. Some will also say and it's NOT a rule, but that they tend to use their DA print more for spring and summer then year round. The monogram Delightful is beautiful and you wouldn't worry about the color transfer. As far as the NF goes, the GM is a rather large tote. I also feel the MM seems a tad small on me and therefore have never bought it, but the GM is HUGE on me. But, I do love the pochette that comes with the NF and you could use it as a wristlet from time to time. Also, people on here have said it's best not to cinch and uncinch the NF continually, but maybe occasionally. As far as stiffness, they all seem a little stiff, but most of the monogram pieces your talking about will relax with just a litte time.