Hey my loves,... I have been faced with an issue at the dinner table last night. My oldest daughter is turning 14 in July and has asked her father and I for something that to me is just crazy!!! I guess my daughter has been doing her own research on Hermes. She has asked that instead of us giving her our traditional Central Park birthday party at the restaurant there we buy her a Hermes Garden Party and an agenda in Poitron color,.. yes she even said Poitron!! and to deposit the rest of the money that we would have spent in her savings account. So I asked her what would we do for her birthday in general and she said "spend it at the beach with you guys and my freinds, I don't want a cake mom, that's so yesterday" I almost died when she said this! No cake! Then my 7 yr old got into the conversation and said "yeah mom we can get cupcakes, I think you should give her what she wants, I don't want to be at the restaurant in the summer either I want to be at the beach" Although it's her birthday I don't feel that she should have a 2k bag wrapped around her arm at such a younge age. My husband doesn't think that this is a big deal because he purchased various designer bags for her. But I always feel like when it comes to these things my husband doesn't side with me but with her. Although I know my husband has made up his mind I will not give her an answer until next week. I want the honest opinion of the ladies here that I dearly love. No matter what he says I am still the mother and what I say will go! he might be the head of the house but I am the neck! And you know what that means! Every opinion counts!!! Pls reply,.. good or bad.