This is a hard one. Just Like Too Many Want More said, both are great bags and both are very comfortable. For me it would boil down to whether or not you prefer a hobo/one handle, or a tote/two handles, with a zipper. I've had my Delightful a long time and really like it but I recently got a Totally and haven't put it down since, only because it's easier for me to get in and out of. It's a toss up and you can't go wrong with either choice, IMO. Have fun deciding.
Oh thank you some good points! The Delightful sags so much that it might drive me nuts! lol I have an Artsy and metis so I'm thinking maybe I need a bag with a zipper? For my bags with zippers I have speedys, raspail, and palermo. I have a several of both. UGH
I prefer zippers because I do not like when my purse falls over and all my things fall out, however I do not prefer the look of totally because it reminds me of a diaper bag. I do really like the look of delightful! Another option is the sully it has a similar look to delightful, but has a zipper. I own 1 as well. Can't go wrong with either one, good luck!