I need serious help from you ladies.. I know these bags are big and maybe a little too big but I gotta have one for my handbag collection. I want something really soft and quishy. I've felt the gussto bags and they are soft, haven't felt the Koobas. I'm looking at the Parina in either dark blue or camel and the Ellery in Rose or Luggage. I have bags in all colors so its more about the way the bag looks in the particular color rather than what I need (I need to be put away in a rehab for purse addiction). I digress... So I have gotten some stock photos--just to show you the colors I want. Please help. I think the dimensions on the Parina are a little bigger and I'm leaning towared the Kooba Ellery.