I'm desperately trying to make myself branch out a little with my handbags, although it has to be user-friendly and functional for me. I've been carrying a better-with-time Coach bleecker leather tote bag that is the perfect size, very easily accessible, etc. Want to try a cross body (especially for travel) - looking at the Natasha and the House of Marc Natasha (it has a short strap that might be good when you want to just grab the bag quickly...?). But I don't know if it is easy to get to the contents of the bag and put things in it quickly. Is it too slouchy or is there a little structure? Does the strap get uncomfortable on your shoulder? So many questions I know. Sure appreciate any input and also other suggestions! Thank you!