Hello. I know this blog is about purses mostly, but it seems there are so many nice peoploe here..I need an advice what to do So badly. I live with a married man already for 3,5 years. He has his wife and 3 children in different country, he has business in Ukraine, so he spends around 2 weeks a month here, 2 weeks there. I live in his apartment plus dependent on him financially as I work in his company. The thing is I hate myself for ever strating this relationship. He keeps promising to divorce, but "I can wait as I'm still young" (I'm 23, his 20 years older). I feel really humiliated in this position of lover, I move out every time his wife comes to visit him, he presents me everywhere as his secretary or assistant...Plus, I hate the job, but he's very sensitive about the issue and insists that I "help him in his business" I have a feeling that I'm wasting my time and my whole life! After 3,5 years I feel it's enough. But I'm so afraid to loose stable financial situation, and I still love him... I don't know what to do, and it's getting worse, I'm constantly depressed. What do you guys think? What should I do?Sorry for long thread.