Hello from a Newbie and opinions needed

I think if you like it and it's functional for you, you should keep it! Scoring a Francine at the outlet is a rare find indeed! It's a large bag and you can fit tons in it, which can be good for the kiddo aspect. I had a Teal one 2 years ago that I also found at the outlet and I sold it because it was just too large for my liking. I hated to get rid of it though, it's such a pretty bag!
 
I'd be torn -
it's an A-freaking-mazing find, great deal

But, it's big (esp for 4'10") and heavy (esp when you're trying to handle 4 kids too) and white (did I mention the 4 kids?). Patent is "easy" but...

I wouldn't return it.

BUT, I don't think it's THE everyday bag for you.
Do keep it, it's your birthday gift!
I think you need a crossbody bag in a durable dark leather too!

Sorry, not much help!!