Greetings, So I'm expecting in Sept for the first time and have a coupel questions for all those experienced mothers out there ! First off, do you find it easier carrying a shoulder bag when lugging around things or do you find it doesn't matter if it's in the crook of arm, etc???? I don't know why I'm obsessed with this but if I'm buying a new bag, I want to make sure I'm not wasting my $ if I regret it later. So any suggestions or your personal experiences would be gratefully appreciated! It's a toss up between the Chanel PST shoulder bag or the Fendi baby spy which is only handheld but extremely light and comfortable.