I just had this really embarassing meltdown, and while I'm not sobbing anymore, I'm just embarassed and shocked that something could affect me that much, especially since it was entirely online and over something really small. I sell on this Live Journal community, and some poster had an item damaged in the mail and posted about it, causing a lot of people to jump to conclusions and assume I did it on purpose, etc. I read her email to me first, and told her that I was going to refund her AND send her a replacement, but when I saw that post I just started bawling. A lot of posters were so judgy and she was so mean to me. I was with that community since 2004, and it felt like I was being stabbed in the back by my best friend. Their reaction to her post made me wonder why I even frequent that place. I just was so mad at her for not even waiting for me to reply before she posted about it publicly. I have perfect feedback, and I'm just so touchy with issues of integrity and trust that I think it really hit home. I need to spend less time on the internet... but sadly, it's like my only form of communication. Has anything like that happened to anyone else? Please don't let me be the only crazy one out here.