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You're seeking advice on whether or not it's appropriate for you to carry a designer purse. Taking into consideration the facts you've presented about your life, including that you're living with and supported by your parents at age 22...
No, it is not appropriate for you to carry a designer purse -- in my humble opinion -- when you live at home with your parents and don't pay rent.
$2K for two or three months worth of rent payment is not the small deal you make it out to be. Independence is priceless.
If you're not going to school, maybe you should consider working full time like most other 22 year olds so you can get your own place AND get the Chanel bag.
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You're seeking advice on whether or not it's appropriate for you to carry a designer purse. Taking into consideration the facts you've presented about your life, including that you're living with and supported by your parents at age 22...
No, it is not appropriate for you to carry a designer purse -- in my humble opinion -- when you live at home with your parents and don't pay rent.
$2K for two or three months worth of rent payment is not the small deal you make it out to be. Independence is priceless.
If you're not going to school, maybe you should consider working full time like most other 22 year olds so you can get your own place AND get the Chanel bag.
Wow, everyone here is kicking your butt and I think it's quite ignorant, actually.
I'm in my early 20's and live at home as well. My parents are amazing, we've had some hard times and basically, I don't pay rent and am saving my money.
I graduated college, I have a full time job and am working towards goals of my own.
Honestly, don't let ANYONE here tell you what is "appropriate" in your life. These people don't know you and their opinion is moot.
Maybe we're in the same situation and maybe we're not, I don't know. I personally buy designer handbags. Do I buy Chanel yet? No. But that is my personal choice. I WILL drop 600 on a bag every once in awhile. If I saved up for 6 months and decided to get a Chanel instead of buying a couple $600 bags, would I feel bad about myself? NO WAY.
In my opinion though, I'm in my early 20's and I want to have something to look forward to and Chanel and Hermes are top of the top. What am I going to be looking forward to later on?
So basically, you have to feel good about yourself and don't let these ladies tell you anything about how you should be living and/or spending your money. It's silly. Follow your gut! If you feel guilty about it, there is probably a reason and then don't do it. If you don't, go for it and see how you feel! It's a one time deal and you'll see how you feel about yourself then. Goodluck!
I live at home as well with my parents and I don't pay rent. I would if they asked me to, but for right now I pay for everything else myself. I'm actually in a weird situation because my parents almost expect me to live at home until I'm married. I know, kind of strange right? But that's probably pretty typical of Asian households. Given where I live, the housing cost is just sky-high and it would be really hard for anyone who recently graduated to buy a house of their own without their parents' help or taking out a ridiculous loan. To me, it makes much more sense to save up money to buy a house instead of spending it on rent (for now anyway... who knows when I'll get tired of living at home? lol).
Having said all that though, it does not mean I don't splurge every once in awhile on things I really want. I do believe in enjoying life when we're young. If I was in your situation, I would save up for more than $2000 and then buy the bag if you really, really want it. That way, after taking the $2k hit, you'll still have money left over for investment, emergencies, etc.
Wow, everyone here is kicking your butt and I think it's quite ignorant, actually.
I'm in my early 20's and live at home as well. My parents are amazing, we've had some hard times and basically, I don't pay rent and am saving my money.
I graduated college, I have a full time job and am working towards goals of my own.
Honestly, don't let ANYONE here tell you what is "appropriate" in your life. These people don't know you and their opinion is moot.
Maybe we're in the same situation and maybe we're not, I don't know. I personally buy designer handbags. Do I buy Chanel yet? No. But that is my personal choice. I WILL drop 600 on a bag every once in awhile. If I saved up for 6 months and decided to get a Chanel instead of buying a couple $600 bags, would I feel bad about myself? NO WAY.
In my opinion though, I'm in my early 20's and I want to have something to look forward to and Chanel and Hermes are top of the top. What am I going to be looking forward to later on?
So basically, you have to feel good about yourself and don't let these ladies tell you anything about how you should be living and/or spending your money. It's silly. Follow your gut! If you feel guilty about it, there is probably a reason and then don't do it. If you don't, go for it and see how you feel! It's a one time deal and you'll see how you feel about yourself then. Goodluck!
Another thought (and certainly not to beat a dead horse nor is this meant as a criticism)--if you are living at home, you might consider paying at least nominal rent, just as a gesture of appreciation to your parents. When I was first in med school, I had to live at home for 2 years--I simply could not hack paying $1800/month in rent for an apartment I was almost never in (since I was in the library), especially as I had $100K+ in student loans and fees accruing annually.
That said, I paid my parents $400/month--this is next to nothing compared to rent + utilities in Boston, but it covered my utility use and food and things like that. I know they really appreciated it, because they knew I wasn't taking them for granted. My parents definitely don't need the $$, and they ended up giving it all back to me (plus interest) when I moved out (my dad had put it all into a separate account). But I know they looked favorably on this as a means for me to demonstrate that I was responsible, and willing to pay rent (just not $1800+/month in rent!).
If you are contributing to the household, luxury purchases may be viewed differently by both you and your parents.