My husband and I adopted a 8 month old puppy from our local animal shelter. We went there to see a different dog and ended up meeting our guy and falling in love, we were hesitant because of his size ( he's already 68 pounds and growing) so we went there multiple times. Each visit he was docile, and super duper sweet. The whole staff said he was just a big mush. When we filled out the application we said the only two things we couldn't handle would be aggression and a dog that didn't get along with cats. The shelter said they cat tested our dog and he showed no signs of aggression, in fact they said he wasn't interested at all.
That made us feel comfortable and so we decided to adopt the big guy.
When we brought him home they suggested we didn't have any visitors or introduce him to the cats right away, as its a big adjustment going to a new home. We have been taking it slow and over the course of the week, we have given him glimpses of our two cats through a baby gate, on a leash of course. Well turns out he's super interested in the cats, and we are not sure if its playful or aggression but we aren't going to find out. He's is super fixated and one of the supervised times he chased after one of our guys. Again, I'm not sure if it was just to play but because of his size alone we cannot take any chances.
I've also discovered that he's an absolute nightmare on the leash. He barks and lunges at anyone and everything. Again this is the opposite of what they told me, which was that he walked like a dream. We have made an appointment with an animal behaviorist and a trainer this week. And in the meantime will continue to keep him and the cats separated for everyones safety. I have been doing my best to give my cats lots of extra attention, treats and love. I just cant seem to feel like I'm failing. I feel badly for my cats, and I feel badly for him because he cant be happy living so fearfully.
I see a lot of potential in this bug guy. When he's not distracted he is that super duper sweet boy they described but its been a lot harder than I thought it would be. I am totally willing to put in work, but the thought of owning a dog that is aggressive is very frightening to me. I'm hoping that this behavior is just because he's frightened and in a new place.
My pets are my babies and I take the responsibility of owning a dog very seriously, especially a large one. I've just been feeling a bit overwhelmed. If anyone has any reassuring words, or advice that would be so appreciated. If not thanks for listening.
That made us feel comfortable and so we decided to adopt the big guy.
When we brought him home they suggested we didn't have any visitors or introduce him to the cats right away, as its a big adjustment going to a new home. We have been taking it slow and over the course of the week, we have given him glimpses of our two cats through a baby gate, on a leash of course. Well turns out he's super interested in the cats, and we are not sure if its playful or aggression but we aren't going to find out. He's is super fixated and one of the supervised times he chased after one of our guys. Again, I'm not sure if it was just to play but because of his size alone we cannot take any chances.
I've also discovered that he's an absolute nightmare on the leash. He barks and lunges at anyone and everything. Again this is the opposite of what they told me, which was that he walked like a dream. We have made an appointment with an animal behaviorist and a trainer this week. And in the meantime will continue to keep him and the cats separated for everyones safety. I have been doing my best to give my cats lots of extra attention, treats and love. I just cant seem to feel like I'm failing. I feel badly for my cats, and I feel badly for him because he cant be happy living so fearfully.
I see a lot of potential in this bug guy. When he's not distracted he is that super duper sweet boy they described but its been a lot harder than I thought it would be. I am totally willing to put in work, but the thought of owning a dog that is aggressive is very frightening to me. I'm hoping that this behavior is just because he's frightened and in a new place.
My pets are my babies and I take the responsibility of owning a dog very seriously, especially a large one. I've just been feeling a bit overwhelmed. If anyone has any reassuring words, or advice that would be so appreciated. If not thanks for listening.