Happy Birthday to me...

not to get in the middle of a marital spat....b/c i HATE that ;) but my dad did this. in reality....i used to take things to school and change. :shame: i hope your daughter doesn't feel like she needs to go behind his back like that...

ultimately though, it helped me know the good men from the bad....the men that treated me like my dad (respected me, loved me, looked out for me) were the ones worth my time.

maybe try to get your hubby to avoid "whorish" or the like (ie "slutty" that one hurts)....vernacular like that can really mess with with a young girl's self esteem. but if you can you help your daughter understand the mindset behind the words (like my stepmom had to sometimes)....boundries are good. really.

oh and happy birthday!!! yay leos! rowr! :lol: