Hi Ladies, Ok.. so I need some serious hair help here.. I've had my hair long for the last 10 years or so, and it's all at one length, usually I have a split in the middle (after I take a shower) and otherwise I split it on the left side and keep it up in a messy sort of bun at almost all times. I would like to get a haircut because it's just a little too much to handle even though it's very thin, straight and flat. The length I'd really like to keep(doesn't mean it can't be layered a bit), maybe can trim a few inches off but other than that I need some ideas. Any ladies out there can offer some advice before I take a trip to the salon. Things I don't want are a short hairdo, something that will make it look even flatter (had my hair cut short as a child and it made me look like a boy) Also don't want anything that will make my face look longer, at the same time I don't want it to look too round. Don't think I want bangs, had them a lot as a child. A side swept frayed long fringe might be ok. I'd like to occasionally curl it (loose curls) and don't mind styling to give it some volume but once it doesn't feel like "so much" Here are some photos attached, the first of my hair a bit wet after a shower (it's naturally split in the middle) and the other me holding it up how I usually wear it and same in the last shot. (I couldn't pull off smiles, so just ignore that ) I'm open to all suggestions, what do you think?