I've been going back and forth with the purse. I know alot of you own it in every size. I actually bought the large in plain ivory leather a few days ago and showed a girlfriend of mine and she said it was too big and it looked odd. so the very next day i returned the purse. I was just wondering if you girls got the same comment when you first bought the purse and how do you like your gucci horsebit hobo now? i must admit it did feel akward carrying it and i was told the leather does soften? thanks